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Build Your Own Toi et Moi Ring
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A beautiful reminder of those that matter most to you
Symbolize your personal narrative in a ring, infusing it with meaning that echoes your story, and allowing you to wear a constant reminder of the important people who hold irreplaceable significance in your life that bring you love and joy.
Details
Details
The ring setting is designed to hold the two stones as one instead of two separate stones side by side, an exclusive NHU Jewelry design.
There is no set combination as this ring is designed for you to completely customize into your own. Unsure of where to start? Previously made pieces can give you inspiration. If you’d like to talk it through and get more specific ideas, I’m here for you. I’m committed to making your vision come to life.
If you haven't contacted me already regarding gemstone orientation and design, I will contact you once you've made your purchase.
The price listed is for the jewelry setting only. Please follow the instructions below to build your own jewelry.
Instructions
Instructions
FOLLOW THE STEPS TO CUSTOMIZE
1. Pick your gemstone(s) for this setting from the stones collection here and add to your cart if you haven't already.
2. For pendants, choose a chain for your pendant here and add it to your cart.
- Chains are optional, if you'd like to purchase only the pendant, no chain is required, indicate by stating "no chain."
- Floating gem necklaces include described chain.
3. Go through the drop down menus and fill out required fields.
4. Add to chart.
*The price listed is for the jewelry setting only*
If you have any questions about this process, any of the options, or looking for a specific stone that is not listed, don't hesitate to contact me for assistance!
Your Prongs Guide Here
Your Prongs Guide Here
Need help choosing what prongs style?
Your guide is here.
Shop Gemstones
Shop Gemstones
Find your gem here.
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I don't see a gemstone that I like.
I don't see a gemstone that I like.
My dedication is fueled by my obsession to find the perfect dream stone for you. The distinctive character that quality gemstones add to jewelry is not just my excitement but my craft.
How are the stone selected?
How are the stone selected?
I work exclusively with gemstones that meet my own high standard of wear. Sourced responsibly from ethical suppliers, every gemstone is selected with utmost care for exquisite color, cut, and clarity, ensuring your jewelry is irresistibly stunning.
What if I order the wrong size?
What if I order the wrong size?
One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. Contact me to have your jewelry piece resized. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Jewelry sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks.
How long does it take to get my order?
How long does it take to get my order?
Gemstone pieces that are made to order takes 8-10 weeks. Ring bands take 2-3 weeks. This does not include shipping time. You can shop ready to ship jewelry here.
Can you rush make my order or resizing?
Can you rush make my order or resizing?
Please contact me to arrange a rush order outside of the stated make times, a fee of $150 applies to move your order up and guarantee a delivery date.
What is your return policy?
What is your return policy?
Your complete satisfaction is my priority. I'll gladly accept items that are returned unworn and unaltered, in sellable condition and original packaging (tags, pouches, boxes, jewelry care, and gift with purchase if applicable. After 30 days of receiving your jewelry, all sales are final.
Please note the exception of earrings, gift cards, custom sourced gemstone jewelry, and sale items are non-returnable and non-refundable.
Jewelry with gemstones that were soured custom were cut just for you, I cannot offer returns or exchanges.
For more information, click here.
HANDMADE FOR YOU
Each jewelry piece is lovingly handmade in Canada, and I am dedicated to continuously advance my craftsmanship. I work exclusively with gemstones and materials that meet my own high standard of wear. I believe so much in my product, that I’ll give you your money back if you’re not satisfied!
MADE TO LAST
Wear your jewelry with so much confidence that you can grow your stacks knowing you can pass it down to the next generations. If your preference leans towards colored gemstones, rest assured that I personally source and handpick each gem, prioritizing pristine clarity and cutting that accentuates their beauty, meeting or even exceeding your expectations.
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Free shipping on orders above $650 within Canada and USA.
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1% of profits donated to the Canadian Cancer Society.
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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
How do I find out my ring size?
There are a few ways to determine your ring size. Please take the time to ensure accuracy.
Your ring(s) can be made in half and quarter sizes.
1. Measure a ring you have that fits the size you desire.
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Measurement (mm) |
14.0 |
14.4 |
14.8 |
15.2 |
15.6 |
16.0 |
16.45 |
16.9 |
17.3 |
17.7 |
18.2 |
18.6 |
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Ring Size |
3 |
3.5 |
4 |
4.5 |
5 |
5.5 |
6 |
6.5 |
7 |
7.5 |
8 |
8.5 |
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Measurement (mm) |
19 |
19.4 |
19.8 |
20.2 |
20.6 |
21.0 |
21.4 |
21.8 |
22.2 |
22.6 |
23.0 |
23.4 |
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Ring Size |
9 |
9.5 |
10 |
10.5 |
11 |
11.5 |
12 |
12.5 |
13 |
13.5 |
14 |
14.5 |
Instructions
1. Place the ring flat on the ruler, measure the inside diameter of the ring.
2. Take the diameter measured in millimeters and use this measurement-conversion chart to find your ring size.
3. Quarter sizes available if you are in between whole and half sizes.
2. Go to your local jewelry store to measure your ring size.
The advantage of going to your local jewelry store to size your finger is that you can receive hands-on assistance and recommendations for ring sizes. Your ring size will have higher accuracy.
3. I can provide local (Calgary, Alberta) personal ring sizing once a purchase is made.
Please contact me to arrange an appointment.
Resizing Policy
One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. To have your ring resized, contact me at n.phan@nhujewelry.com. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Rings sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks.
How do I find my bracelet size?
There are a few ways to determine your cuff bracelet size. Please take the time to ensure accuracy.
With a Measuring Tape
1. Take a soft measuring tape
2. On the wrist you will be wearing the cuff bracelet, wrap the measuring tape around your wrist. Your wrist measurement is where the markings meet. Keep in mind where you will be wearing the cuff if you are wearing a stack of bracelets.
3. Take this measurement and use the measurement-conversion chart below to find your cuff bracelet size.
With a String
1. Get a piece of string.
2. On the wrist you will be wearing the cuff bracelet, wrap the string around your wrist. Mark where the string meets with a sharpie. Keep in mind where you will be wearing the cuff if you are wearing a stack of bracelets.
3. Put the string flat on top of a ruler. Measure the length of the string from the end to the sharpie mark. Take this measurement and use the measurement-conversion chart below to find your cuff bracelet size.
SIZE CHART
15cm - Fits up to 5.50"
16cm - Fits up to 6.00"
17cm - Fits up to 6.25"
18cm - Fits up to 6.50"
19cm - Fits up to 6.75"
Resizing Policy
Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. To have your bracelet size exchanged, contact me at n.phan@nhujewelry.com. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Items sent without first requesting a size exchange will not be accepted. Items returned for exchange must be accompanied with sales receipt, be unaltered, unworn, and in saleable condition. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Bracelet in new size can take up to 6-8 weeks to make, this does not include shipping time.
What if I ordered the wrong size?
One free resize on solid gold rings is provided within 1 year of purchase. Request to exchange bracelet size will be accepted within 30 days from when you received your purchase. Contact me to have your jewelry piece resized. I'll send instructions on how and where to send your package. Jewelry sent without first requesting a resizing will not be accepted. Buyers are responsible for shipping costs. Resizing can take up to 4 weeks.
What is a Moissanite?
Henri Moissan originally discovered moissanite in a meteor crater. Moissanite was found to be made of silicon carbide, making natural moissanite extremely are. Moissanite gemstones are now laboratory made. With modern day technology, the color and cut of moissanite stones are exquisite.
Moissanite and diamond are commonly compared. Moissanite make a great alternative to diamond as it scores 9.25 on the Mohs hardness scale. They have a higher refractive index than diamond, making their sparkle remarkable.
Moissanite weighs about 10% less than a diamond of the same diameter, therefore, moissanite of the same carat weight of a diamond is larger. Listed moissanite stones are identified with diamond weight equivalent carat weight (dew).
What is 14K palladium white gold?
- Gold is naturally yellow. In order for gold to have a white appearance, it is infused with a metal that is naturally white. Typically, white gold is made with nickel.
- Palladium is a white metal that is in the same group as platinum and rhodium. This shiny metal is mostly extracted as a byproduct of mining other metals such as platinum and nickel. It is more rare than gold, which is reflected in the price. On the market, it is one of the most valuable metals.
- Palladium white gold is made with 15% palladium and is nickel-free. It is great for avoiding the concerns regarding nickel sensitivity.
- Gray with a warm undertone. Can be rhodium plated to achieve a bright white color with no warm undertone.
Do you offer payment plans?
Payment is due in full for me to start working on your piece. If you would like a payment plan for your purchase, you can provide payment via Sezzle or PayPal Credit.
What’s your return policy?
Your complete satisfaction is my priority. I’ll gladly accept items that are returned
in unworn and unaltered, in sellable condition and original packaging (tags, pouches,
boxes, jewelry care, and the gift with purchase if applicable). After 30 days
of receiving your jewelry, all sales are final.
Please note the exception of earrings, gift cards, custom sourced gemstone jewelry, and
sale items are non-returnable and non-refundable.
Jewelry with gemstones that were sourced custom were cut just for you, I cannot offer
returns or exchanges.
For more information, click here.
Let customers speak for us
Working with Nhu was a pleasure. She helped me every step of the way answering every question I had. Not only was her service amazing, but the ring came out more beautiful than I could have ever imagined. I can’t wait to propose to my girlfriend cause I know she is going to love it. Thanks for everything, Nhu!
I LOVE my custom made Toi et Moi ring. Nhu was able to create the perfect setting with the birthstone of my daughters, leaning against one another, joined on a unity band! The symbolism!! 🥲 She was so easy to work with and answered all my questions during the entire process.
As soon as I stumbled on NHU I knew I needed to work with her on my engagement ring. My boyfriend and I had a vision in mind from the get go but needed some direction. So being able to talk through all the small details we hadn't thought of was excellent. Nhu was patient and thorough through the entire design process. Even though we weren't local to Canada we still received lots pictures of different stones and examples to help bring our dream to life while miles and miles away. The ring is truly perfect, SO unique, and represents my fiancé and I! So thankful to have had this opportunity to create a one of a kind ring!
I love this dainty necklace! I wear it all day and don’t take it off at night and have had no issues. The moissanite is perfect and super shiny. Nhu was super helpful to help customize the piece and sent me lots of photos and videos on combinations of gem sizes and gold/silver necklaces! I would highly recommend!
I have multiple custom rings made by Nhu. She is very talented at what she does and offers the best service! She will help you find just the perfect gemstone of your dreams and will never leave you feeling pressured about buying something. She really cares about the detail and quality of her craft and I will continue to purchase from Nhu 😍
My unity band on sterling silver was gifted to me by my husband to replace my original wedding set. Not only is the craftsmanship incredible, the time and effort she took to make sure it was packaged beautifully was the cherry on top. Cannot wait to add more of her work to my collection!
I received this ring as part of a set from my husband when my original engagement ring broke. The quality, sparkle and plain love that went into making this can be felt, down to the packaging I received it in. Will be working with Nhu Jewelry a lot more in the future. (Ignore the chipped nail polish in my photo).
The process of creating my ring was so easy and special to me. I wanted to treat myself for my birthday with some jewelry and when I saw the toi et moi design, my gut was like: yes.
The reason it was so special was because I couldn't visit my grandmother, who pretty much raised me, during the pandemic. As she aged, she was also become less and less of who I remembered.
As the design started coming together, I realized that this was becoming a commemoration of her and I. We are very alike in many ways but she is much, much stronger.
The final design serendipitously had her birthstone leaning into mine - which reminded me of promises I made as a child to take care of her when I grew up.
Grandma thankfully, is still around. And we get to visit again. This ring will always be special to. So grateful for Nhu and our process of creating this ring.
Nhu created a few custom pieces for me including rings and necklaces. All of them were beautiful crafted and the gemstones are gorgeous. The communication was great and Nhu went out of her way to find the stones I love❤️ would 100% recommend if you are looking for a unique and one of a kind piece of jewelry.
I recently received a pair of sparkly moissanite earrings from one of my best friends for my 30th birthday and I am absolutely in love with them! These earrings are the perfect combination of elegance and sparkle, and they add just the right amount of glamour to any outfit.
The moissanite stones in these earrings are simply stunning, with a brilliance that rivals that of a diamond. The sparkle and fire of these stones is truly breathtaking, and they catch the light in the most beautiful way. They are the perfect size - large enough to make a statement, but not so large as to be overpowering. I wear them everyday!
The setting of the earrings is also very classy and elegant, with a design that showcases the beauty of the moissanite stones without overwhelming them. The earrings are crafted with high-quality materials and attention to detail, and they feel solid and well-made.
I have received numerous compliments on these earrings, with many people commenting on their stunning sparkle and sophisticated design. They are versatile enough to wear with a variety of outfits, from casual to formal, and I feel confident and glamorous whenever I wear them.
Overall, I highly recommend these sparkly moissanite earrings to anyone looking for a timeless and elegant piece of jewelry that will add a touch of glamour to any outfit. The quality of the stones and the craftsmanship of the earrings make them a true standout.
Purchased this gorgeous necklace as a retirement gift for my mom. She absolutely loves it! Superb craftsmanship and amazing customer service! Will definitely purchase from Nhu again!
This was the first piece I have purchased from Nhu and I absolutely love it!!! Sooo pretty and delicate. Amazing craftsmanship and wonderful customer service! If you are thinking about purchasing one of Nhu’s pieces don’t hesitate you won’t regret it!!!
I asked Nhu to make me a minimalistic but elegant statement ring and this certainly did not disappoint . While it may not have any intricate designs or embellishments, the ring's simplicity is what makes it so beautiful. The gold has a warm, rich tone that is both elegant and understated.
The ring is also incredibly comfortable to wear. The band is smooth and well-polished, making it easy to slip on and off. I can wear it all day without any discomfort or irritation.
One thing I particularly appreciate about this ring is its versatility. It can be worn alone for a minimalist look, or paired with other rings to create a more layered and textured look. The ring's width makes the ring super easy to sit flush with and it also pairs well with any outfit, whether dressed up or down.
Overall, I would highly recommend this simple gold band ring to anyone looking for a timeless and versatile piece of jewelry. It is a classic style that will never go out of fashion and is sure to become a beloved addition to anyone's jewelry collection.
I liked it so much I have asked Nhu to make me one to match my engagement ring and to make one similar for my fiance.
